Wife swapping, or swinging parties, have been held for years. Some of the first were the Roman Orgies. With the 1950s and then the sexual revolution they became more common and held more often.

The first common party to be held were key parties. Couples would arrive at the designated location and upon entering drop their keys into a bowl. The party would commence as any normal party with drinks, food and conversation. At the end of the evening all participating would gather in a room with men on one side and women on the other. Each woman would then draw a set of keys from the bowl. The man who owned the keys she drew would be her partner for the night. They would either go home or go to another room to have sex. Some couples would go to the same room, giving an exhibitionism or voyeuristic feel to the experience.

With the addition of newspapers, magazines and the Internet parties are larger with couple and group sex occuring. These days a common party would include a couple arriving at a hotel. The group of partiers rents out the whole floor. This enables them to go room to room pleasuring each other. No longer are keys drawn, you find individuals or couples that you click with. Chemistry is important. Then you retire to a room. It is common for more than one couple to be in a room.

Also it can be a more intimate gathering of only two to three couples. A hot tub party is common with couples renting out a whirlpool suite and sampling each other.

Thanks to increased ability to communicate parties are larger and planned more. No longer do couples and individuals need to stay within their homes. Options have come a long way since the key parties of earlier years.

Dogging is a term that can get some people very aroused. “What is dogging?” You may well ask. Basically, it describes sexual behavior in an outdoor setting for couples and individuals. From having sex on a blanket in a park to a session in a parked car at the park, dogging can be hot. The appeal to the people who participate in dogging is the exhibitionism and vouyeurism associated. The thrill is what it is all about.
This can be a gangbang on a blanket in the woods or park or couples in a car sucking toes and having sex. Swinging is not the main focus, it is swinging with the added enjoyment of possibly getting caught or being seen. Or, it could be the enjoyment of getting caught while watching your wife/husband or girlfriend/boyfriend with someone else.
A typical dogging encounter would involve going to a carpark and waiting to be approached. If you like the couple/individual invite them into the car. The amount of activity is up to you. It could be sucking on toes and oral sex to full intercourse
Dogging can be difficult, more hit and miss than anything. Hours can be spent at a location with no takers. Therefore, advertising is the way to go. There are dogging boards available online. Be careful not to describe yourself too much, and the time you will be at a park, etc. Ask for emails and pick those you want to meet before hand.
Safety is most important. Do not take anything of high value with you. Move your purse or wallet to the glove box or in the trunk. Those meeting you could find all your personal information, including your address and name.
Dogging can be fun for those who like voyeurism and exhibitionism. Be sure to be safe and play by the rules.

“The Lifestyle”, otherwise known as swinging, has spread all over the world. To some it seems the UK has been affected by the lifestyle, formerly known as wife swapping. It has been referred to as animalistic. But, throughout history swinging has been a constant. Some feel paligamy was a form of swinging.

From early Romans day when the Romans would participate in orgies to the wife swapping at WWII camps, swinging has had a following. The internet has helpes see an explosion in swingers since the 1980s. Individuals and couples particpating in sex with others as a group or just “swapping”, and all that implies, is accepted more today.

Some claim swinging has become an adult dating option. It has spread not only over European countries, but has become more wide spread in Europe. There are citizens of the UK who feel swinging has been most widespread in their country. More recently swinging clubs have made an appearance in the area. “The Lifestyle” can easily be found amidst swinging clubs. Couples can become members by going through an application process and paying a fee. Magazines, newspapers and internet websites can be found by anyone interested.

One thing is for certain. In modern swinging groups women are more equal. They even have an equal say in choosing partners and what happens with during their “playtime” with their “playmates”.

Introduction to swinging was found when US pilots would hold unusual gatherings with their wives. It was made known that if a pilot was injured or killed in the line of duty his wife would be taken care of, that included sexually. Today it has become a form of recreational sex, with so many forms having become available as of recent.

Whether a couple wants to try the lifestyle for a night or truly make it a lifestyle they easily have the avenues to make the fantasy become a reality.