Firslty we’re not talking about dancing here, in the form of swing dance. Our swinging is of the horizontal dancing variety and if I say so myself a lot more fun and a lot more natural!

Swinging or the practice of wife swapping has been around for a very long time, although it has to be noted that you don’t have to always have a wife to go swinging!

Single males are an important part of the swinging scene for everyone involved. In some sectors it says that swinging really took off (no pun intended) in the US air force during the 50’s although I can’t be 100% sure. What is certain is it really started to gain momentum unsurprisingly in the liberated 60’s and continues unabated today.

There are lots of swingers sites out there on the internet to help you further your swinigng, if you’re interested you might want to check out The Swingers Forum it seems pretty good at the first glance.

I joined earlier and was pleased to see it was at least 100% free, you didn’t have to pay to message, receive messages or chat.

There is more and more interested in the swinging scene down under. Its pretty vibrant with some greta clubs, most of them on the east coast. There is also more and more online sites popping up trying to match swingers together, there are a couple of new ones specifically geared to for matching making. As there are some good new resource sites offering help adn advice to first time swingers

Bringing up swinging in a conversation with people whose responses are still unpredictable is always hard to do. You are not sure whether the people you are talking to are swingers or swinging couples, and you would want to know without risking too much exposure, right?

I have probably mentioned this trick before, but it is indeed one of the oldest tricks in the book and it can be used to discretely find out if someone is swinging — or comfortable with you being a swinger. What you need to do is find a booklet, journal, magazine, or other publications about swinging and leave it around in places where the person you are trying to figure out will most likely see. You can do this trick to find out if a couple is interested, if someone is already a swinger, or even just to see if someone would freak out if you tell them that you are swinging.

How can exactly we determine their thoughts about swinging? Once they discovered the publication, there are two common responses. The first one is they ask questions directly. You can say things like a friend gave you the publication or other similar reasons, and then state that you think reading the publication was interesting. People who are actually swingers will share their experiences, people who are comfortable with swinging will show no eminent reactions and remain calm while asking probe questions, while people who just can’t live with the idea will surely freak out or act negatively as soon as you said the publication was interesting. Pretty easy, right?

Wife swapping has been around since human kind has been in existence. Some think it is a fairly recent additon to sexual choices. This is not the case at all. If one would look back to the days of the Roman Orgies they would find a different reality. It was in the 1950s when the world was introduced to swinging through groups. With the introduction to the war came the introduction to wife swapping.

US airforce pilots had a close knit bond and friends would tell a pilot that they would care for his wife until his return. If he would be wounded or killed he would not have to worry about his wife. This also meant sexually. The key parties later made it more accessible to the general population. During these parties couples would attend. The husband or boyfriend would place his keys in a bowl at the beginning of the night. After a night of a few drinks and conversation the men would sit on one half of the room and the women on the other. Each woman would draw a set of keys and go home, or to another room, and have sex with that man.

Later magazines, newspapers and other forms of communication were established. Couples and individuals were able to take out and answer ads looking for “playmates”. Finally with the advent of the Internet more resources were available for them to find people. Swinging and wife swapping clubs then became more common. Couples and individuals can join for a minimal fee and go through an application process.

Whether it be known as wife swapping, swinging, one thing remains the same. Couples and individuals have found a way to live a lifestyle they desire and express themselves. There is a sexual freedom all involved share. And they have the ability to enjoy it.

Swinging has existed for decades in America. It was in the 1950s that it gained media attention and became popular. It was previously known as wife swapping. Swinging involves couples and singles meeting for intimate encounters. Those involved posses an open mindedness when it comes to their sexual freedoms. They have the urge and ability to act out fantasies. Now swinging is referred to as “The Lifestyle”.

Researchers have found swinging occurred as far back as early Roman days. It is well known the Romans loved their orgies!

Wife swapping was introduced in our culture during WWI. Military husbands would attend parties being told that if they were killed in the line of duty friends would care for their wives, including sexually. Key parties then came about. A bowl would be placed in the room and men would put their keys into the bowl. All the women would choose a set of keys and go to bed with the man who owned them.

Since it’s introduction it has been accepted more. Modern swinging is more equal with men and women having an equal role in finding their “friends” and enjoying the experience equally. It has now spread across the world with the introduction of magazines and clubs.

The Internet helped the lifestyle grow beginning in the 80s. With the introduction of anonymity and the ability to meet more people, many joined the lifestyle. Before the Internet, swingers had to rely on magazines and newspapers to find others with the same interests. This was a new avenue for swingers to meet others with the same interests.

The swinging community continues to grow daily. The Internet not only helps couples and individuals find people with the same likes and interests, it helps spread information on the lifestyle. And, with the acceptance of the lifestyle, it will continue to grow.

Wife swapping, or swinging parties, have been held for years. Some of the first were the Roman Orgies. With the 1950s and then the sexual revolution they became more common and held more often.

The first common party to be held were key parties. Couples would arrive at the designated location and upon entering drop their keys into a bowl. The party would commence as any normal party with drinks, food and conversation. At the end of the evening all participating would gather in a room with men on one side and women on the other. Each woman would then draw a set of keys from the bowl. The man who owned the keys she drew would be her partner for the night. They would either go home or go to another room to have sex. Some couples would go to the same room, giving an exhibitionism or voyeuristic feel to the experience.

With the addition of newspapers, magazines and the Internet parties are larger with couple and group sex occuring. These days a common party would include a couple arriving at a hotel. The group of partiers rents out the whole floor. This enables them to go room to room pleasuring each other. No longer are keys drawn, you find individuals or couples that you click with. Chemistry is important. Then you retire to a room. It is common for more than one couple to be in a room.

Also it can be a more intimate gathering of only two to three couples. A hot tub party is common with couples renting out a whirlpool suite and sampling each other.

Thanks to increased ability to communicate parties are larger and planned more. No longer do couples and individuals need to stay within their homes. Options have come a long way since the key parties of earlier years.

Dogging is a term that can get some people very aroused. “What is dogging?” You may well ask. Basically, it describes sexual behavior in an outdoor setting for couples and individuals. From having sex on a blanket in a park to a session in a parked car at the park, dogging can be hot. The appeal to the people who participate in dogging is the exhibitionism and vouyeurism associated. The thrill is what it is all about.
This can be a gangbang on a blanket in the woods or park or couples in a car sucking toes and having sex. Swinging is not the main focus, it is swinging with the added enjoyment of possibly getting caught or being seen. Or, it could be the enjoyment of getting caught while watching your wife/husband or girlfriend/boyfriend with someone else.
A typical dogging encounter would involve going to a carpark and waiting to be approached. If you like the couple/individual invite them into the car. The amount of activity is up to you. It could be sucking on toes and oral sex to full intercourse
Dogging can be difficult, more hit and miss than anything. Hours can be spent at a location with no takers. Therefore, advertising is the way to go. There are dogging boards available online. Be careful not to describe yourself too much, and the time you will be at a park, etc. Ask for emails and pick those you want to meet before hand.
Safety is most important. Do not take anything of high value with you. Move your purse or wallet to the glove box or in the trunk. Those meeting you could find all your personal information, including your address and name.
Dogging can be fun for those who like voyeurism and exhibitionism. Be sure to be safe and play by the rules.

“The Lifestyle”, otherwise known as swinging, has spread all over the world. To some it seems the UK has been affected by the lifestyle, formerly known as wife swapping. It has been referred to as animalistic. But, throughout history swinging has been a constant. Some feel paligamy was a form of swinging.

From early Romans day when the Romans would participate in orgies to the wife swapping at WWII camps, swinging has had a following. The internet has helpes see an explosion in swingers since the 1980s. Individuals and couples particpating in sex with others as a group or just “swapping”, and all that implies, is accepted more today.

Some claim swinging has become an adult dating option. It has spread not only over European countries, but has become more wide spread in Europe. There are citizens of the UK who feel swinging has been most widespread in their country. More recently swinging clubs have made an appearance in the area. “The Lifestyle” can easily be found amidst swinging clubs. Couples can become members by going through an application process and paying a fee. Magazines, newspapers and internet websites can be found by anyone interested.

One thing is for certain. In modern swinging groups women are more equal. They even have an equal say in choosing partners and what happens with during their “playtime” with their “playmates”.

Introduction to swinging was found when US pilots would hold unusual gatherings with their wives. It was made known that if a pilot was injured or killed in the line of duty his wife would be taken care of, that included sexually. Today it has become a form of recreational sex, with so many forms having become available as of recent.

Whether a couple wants to try the lifestyle for a night or truly make it a lifestyle they easily have the avenues to make the fantasy become a reality.